Folks, I just called CTV in Winnipeg, the Winnipeg Sun, and the Winnipeg Free Press. None of them had heard about the agency closure. ???

If you don’t want this to happen – call your local newspapers and TV stations, as well as the provincial news sources. Tell your stories, tell about the good work CAFAC has done, and see that the Ministry is pressured to work with them to continue.

They need to hear real people wth real stories!

Folks -

I just learned that Canada’s long-standing Ethiopian adoption agency CAFAC is on the edge of closing its doors February 3rd. this is absolutely TERRIBLE!!!

We need to help CAFAC get through this.

You may or may not know, but we were one of the first two families that flew to Ethiopia after the Imagine bankruptcy to get our kids. We can’t let this reliable and long-standing agency fall apart – especially if one of the core issues is the agency’s inability to charge adequate fees for increasing timelines.

When imagine fell apart, the tragedy wasn’t just families not realizing their dreams. The tragedies I saw were children being sent back to orphanages to live out their lives, Ethiopian staff losing their jobs and their own families going unfed, and a blight on the world’s perception of international adoption.

The CAFAC board explains their position very clearly and asks for help very clearly: http://cafac.ca

PLEASE, do at least one of these things tomorrow.

#1 Call a reporter in Manitoba and tell them why it’s a tragedy if CAFAC goes under/ceases operations.

#2 Call Minister Jennifer Howard’s offices 204-945-4173 (ministry) 204-946-0272 (constituency) to voice your support for CAFAC and to encourage the ministry to allow for interim funding and fee increases.

#3 if you can’t call, email your concerns to the minister: minfsl@leg.gov.mb.ca

Let’s unite and stop this agency from failing!!

It’s been quite a while since I’ve posted anything about Vulnerable Children Society on my blog – but perhaps it’s overdue.

The truth is, even though we have had a WONDERFUL first year and a half, and been able to help many children, there are so many more waiting. I have their pictures… most of the kids are small and undernourished, and look sad or nervous. (They are such different pictures than the ones I have in our “already sponsored” folders – those children are smiling and healthy.)

One of our VCS directors recently visited Wonji, where we (through the goodwill of our awesome sponsors) are able to support extremely vulnerable children. She had been to the area a few times before, but was just aghast at the current need. There are so many kids who are either HIV+ themselves, or have parents/guardians who have HIV. The sad fact is, the ARVs (anti-retroviral medicines) they receive from the government DON’T WORK UNLESS THE KIDS ARE ADEQUATELY NOURISHED. So children in Wonji are dying of AIDS, not because they don’t have access to medicine, but because they are so malnourished that the medicines don’t work. They need food+meds to live.

This is a complete tragedy.

I know that we in North America have been hit hard by an economic recession. Many families have lost income.  I empathize with families feeling a crunch. In our home,  Jrock went free-lance in the fall, and has very little work in January/February. But we are lucky, and in no long-term danger. My income pays the bills and we never want for food or shelter. Our short-term strains are nothing compared to the absolute catastrophe that so many families in the Horn of Africa are facing.

So here’s my unapologetic request: if you have $35 a month to spare, please sponsor a child in our House 2 House program through Vulnerable Children Society. You know exactly where the money is going… and I can assure you that your on-going commitment will mean literally the world to a deserving Ethiopian child.

To sponsor a child, please visit www.vulnerablechildren.ca

You can also download our newsletter to see what we’ve been up to! This is all thanks to our amazing donors and sponsors, and super partner organization, Faya Orphanage.

PS: I’ll be putting my money where my mouth is today, too, and sponsoring another child.

Many of you, my wonderful family, friends and blog viewers know that I’m the President of Vulnerable Children Society. A huge source of revenue for us to do the amazing work we can in Ethiopia comes from holiday gifts – please consider slipping a little love in a stocking for your loved ones! By donating in their name, you not only warm their heart, but also make an essential difference in Ethiopian children’s lives!

Please consider reposting this on your blog as well!!! (Get a badge for your blog here.)

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa or Genna, a December gift of love for a vulnerable child is sure to delight and warm the heart.

Show your loved one that you care about them and about the children in Ethiopia at the same time. Donate to Vulnerable Children Society, or sponsor a Family, or Community Child through VCS’s House 2 House program in your friend or family member’s name.

It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3!

1.  Simply donate on the Vulnerable Children Society website with Paypal, debit or credit card.

2.  Send an email to info@vulnerablechildren.ca .Include your name, and the gift recipient’s name, full address and email, as well as any special instructions.

3.  If VCS receives your donation email before December 15th, they will send out a paper postcard informing the recipient of your kind gift. If we receive your donation after December 15th, they will send out an e-card to their email address on December 25th (unless you instruct otherwise.)

Merry Christmas! Happy Hanukkah! Joyous Kwanzaa! Melkam Genna!

I really think World AIDS day should be called World HIV Day now. You know why? Because thirty years after the pandemic was started, noone has to die anymore from AIDS. So why, then, are so many people suffering from this horrible disease?

• The World Health Organization estimates that more than 25 million people worldwide have died from this infection since the start of the epidemic.
• In 2008, there were approximately 33.4 million people around the world living with HIV/AIDS, including 2.1 million children under age 15. (From the US National Library of Medicine.)

If people with the HIV virus recieve treatment and nutrition, they won’t get AIDS. They won’t die from AIDS-related illnesses like infections or TB. HIV+ poeple, today, live just as long as HIV- negative people. They can have children, safely, who are HIV-. They can have life-long relationships with an HIV- partner and never infect their spouse. It’s truly remarkable how far the treament, prevention, and knowledge about this disease as come.

“Thirty years into the HIV/AIDS epidemic, it seems downright bizarre that human immunodeficiency virus was once known as GRID—“Gay-related immune deficiency”—because the earliest cases were concentrated among gay men in New York City and Los Angeles. Today, of course, we know better, after a 13-year-old boy named Ryan White and tennis star Arthur Ashe let the world know that what was once dubbed “gay cancer” could be acquired through blood transfusions, among other routes. After a little girl named Hydeia Broadbent who was born with HIV started speaking out, and a 23-year-old, drug-free, HIV-positive professional woman named Rae Lewis Thornton proclaimed her status on the cover of Essence magazine. After Magic Johnson—Magic Johnson!—retired from the Lakers due to HIV and prejudice. After N.W.A’s nasal-voiced frontman Eazy-E announced he had AIDS and died a month later. After these high-profile stories; the sparkly M.A.C Viva Glam and the conspicuously urban Rap-It-Up campaigns; the “No Glove, No Love” slogans; the free condoms at Planned Parenthood; the films like “Life Support”; and the memoirs like Marvelyn Brown’s “The Naked Truth.” After seeing our family members, friends and neighbors live with HIV and, in way too many cases die of AIDS-related illnesses, we now know without a doubt that this thing is ours. All of ours.” Excerpt from It’s World AIDS Day. What Are You Gonna Do to Stop This Madness?

When I started giving talks about HIV and AIDS 8 years ago, I often started with the image of a mother and her child. I said THIS is the face of AIDS today. When you think about the person who is now the most vulnerable to being infected to the virus – it is ME… just black, uneducated, and with a child (which I have now too.)

The scary thing about the HIV virus is that it really is a disease of social inequity. People who have access to education don’t get infected. Btu women who are uneducated, marry too early and don’t have control over their own bodies – these are the people most susceptible to getting HIV. And then it’s a question of access to treatment. Simply put, if you are poor… you better make darn sure you were born in a country that has free anti-retroviral medicine.  If you don’t want to get sick, you have to stay strong and eat properly. In other words, you better not be suffering from poverty or starvation, or you will get sick. And then if you get sick – you better be born in a country that has accessible healthcare.

IF you are so unlucky to have been born in a place where women do not have equal rights, there is insufficient healthcare… well, now you know why HIV still can turn into AIDS. It’s a social equity issue.

Some other quick basic facts about the HIV virus and AIDS:

Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) causes AIDS. The virus attacks the immune system and leaves the body vulnerable to a variety of life-threatening infections and cancers.

“The virus can be spread (transmitted):

• ~ Through sexual contact — including unprotected oral, vaginal, and anal sex
• ~ Through blood — via blood transfusions (now extremely rare in the U.S.) or needle sharing
• ~ From mother to child — a pregnant woman can transmit the virus to her fetus through their shared blood circulation, or a nursing mother can transmit it to her baby in her breast milk

HIV infection is NOT spread by:

• ~ Casual contact such as hugging
• ~ Mosquitoes
• ~ Participation in sports
• ~ Touching items that were touched by a person infected with the virus.” (From the US National Library of Medicine)

Some other things you MAY not know!

* Everyone who is exposed to the HIV virus does not get infected. It depends on how much of the virus enters the body.

* People who are HIV+ can father and give birth to HIV- children.

* Effective “treatment of a person living with HIV puts the disease into virtual long-term remission and dramatically reduces HIV transmission”. In fact, immediate antiretroviral treatment of an HIV+ partner within magnetic couples, “where one person has HIV and the other does not, reduced AIDS-related morbidity and mortality in the HIV-infected partner by 41% and decreased HIV transmission to the sexual partner by 96.3%.” (Read more…)

Our kids – all ready for cake.

Happy New Year!

OK, o it speaks to my current state of business that I’m writing this two weels late. But accept my belated felicitations!

On our way to the New Year's celebration.

We had a really great new year – we got together with a bunch of other Ethiopian families.Sadly, the party was also to say goodbye to one really awesome family who are moving to Toronto soon. But each time we get together, there is always a new face or new family joining us. Our small community continues to grow.

I know I’ve said it before, but it is such a blessing to be included in our Ethiopian community. They call me an honorary Habesha – I know they are just being nice, but it feels good anyway.

The girls got to wear their fancy dresses and eat food and, best of all! learn some Ethiopian dancing from a few friends in the living room. (Video below – so cute!!!) Bless his heart, the young man who patiently showed Spice how to swing her skirt. I hung out with the ladies, and sometimes a bit with the men. There are a few of the men who are in the same profession as I am, so we talk shop a bit. It’s a pretty gender-divided gathering, though, usually. Not by any design, but rather that the women hardly leave the kitchen.

Some funny moments from New Year – the first was when we were walking/biking over there to our friend H & M’s house. Here the girls were in their uber-traditional dresses, flying down the street on their pink “pixie-dust” BMX bikes. Talk about a bit of a culture mash.

The manditory coffee ceremony. She borrowed my scarf

The other super funny moment was when the dance lessons were happening. My friend W was asking up a bunch of guys to dance – this one fellow starts boogying in a pretty uncoordinated fashion. They told him he danced like ferengi – I objected! and said most of us dance better than that.

The funny thing is that they were speaking Amharic, but I get enough to follow some conversations. It’s really thoughtful though – if someone says a prayer or gives a toast, they often switch back and forth to English and I know it’s for our benefit. They don’t have to – Jrock and I are happy just to blend and nod – but it’s appreciated non-the-less.

Anyway – happy new year! Hope you enjoy the pictures and the video below (which has dancing footage!)

Catching up – we're really good friends with H & M especially.

M presiding over the cake – and the rest of the feast!

My friend W – her husband founded Partners in the Horn of Africa.

H organized a big lotto pool from New Years – but despite all the good vibes, we didn't win.

So cute! And not one drop of icecream cake spilled!

Spice beaming from ear to ear, learning to dance!

  The dance footage: Notice the proud chin and big grin!!! lol

As a mother, I can barely imagine what it must be like to be a mama in the Horn of Africa right now.

The love I feel watching my children joke and play… the way I hold their warm bodies close to me while they sleep: these are universal joys of motherhood. What devastates me is the agonies these mothers must going through right now. No mother should ever have to watch your child cry from hunger and waste away in front of your eyes, misbehave and not focus because they are so startling unnourished, strain their young bodies beyond their capacity hauling water, lie sick and dispondant in a makeshift bed, or be shoved aside as they clammer for handouts at a refugee camp.

No mother should have to live through that. And niether should any child.

I’m sure there are many other moms out there who feel the way that I do. You simply cannot have a child from Ethiopia keep the drought at arm’s length. It’s too personal. We are too responsible.

I was driving in the car with my husband and girls a couple of days ago. We adults were discussing the drought and my work with Vulnerable Children. My husband, who was trying to tell me to not take too much on and slow down a little, made a comment like: “you can’t help everyone you know.”

Well, from the carseats in the back, the girls were outraged by his benign comment. “Daddy! Mommy has to help the kids in Ethiopia. We have to help them too. There isn’t any water, so they can’t grow food. And with no food, the kids are hungry, and the animals are hungry. Even the cows will die so they can’t eat the cows. And they can’t eat the plants if the plants aren’t growing. We have to help them. We have lots of money and they don’t have any money to buy food. So we all have to help them. Or they will die. The kids will die.”

That’s pretty much verbatim what came from the back seat.

And that’s why I can’t help but ask one more time:
if you havn’t given to drought relief in the Horn of Africa, please do.

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These experienced Canadian and international partners are already on the ground in East Africa:

World Food Programme (WFP)

The World Food Programme and its partners are:

• helping to meet the immediate food needs of 11.5 million drought-affected people in Kenya, Ethiopia and Somalia, including drought-affected refugees in Ethiopia and Kenya
• through the United Nations Humanitarian Air Service, providing efficient, responsive and cost-effective air transport services for humanitarian agencies in the region

WFP has been preparing for this drought cycle and scaling up through the past six months. With CIDA‘s support to WFP‘s Immediate Response Account ($10 million in 2010-2011) and Forward Purchase Facility ($10 million in 2010-2011), the WFP was able to pre-position 400 metric tonnes of food in the Horn of Africa region in the spring.

United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR)

UNHCR and its partners are:

• providing emergency assistance to address the basic needs of up to 582,000 displaced Somalis throughout the region. This includes increasing access to safe drinking water, nutritious food and needed medical assistance, as well as improving safety and living conditions in the refugee camps.

UNICEF

UNICEF and its partners are:

• providing urgent life-saving treatments to approximately 510,000 families in Somalia and the region, including ready-to-use therapeutic food at the community level; access to safe drinking water, sanitation and hygiene; and access to vaccines against measles, polio and other deadly diseases
• providing access to education through temporary learning spaces and school-in-a-box kits

CARE Canada

CARE Canada is:

• reducing malnutrition-related sickness and death in Ethiopia among approximately 41,000 severely and moderately malnourished children under five and pregnant and lactating women
• providing training support for approximately 210 health professionals, workers and volunteers and conducting an awareness campaign for target communities on child growth and good nutrition practices
• addressing immediate life-saving needs of approximately 90,000 people in Kenya by improving access to safe drinking water for both household and livestock consumption and by improving physical security for refugees and the host community around the Dadaab refugee camp
• meeting the basic health and nutrition needs of approximately 8,700 displaced persons in Somalia, particularly children under five, pregnant and lactating women and the elderly, through specific nutrition support, disease control activities, and hygiene and sanitation kits

Oxfam Canada

Oxfam is:

• alleviating suffering, preventing loss of life, and reducing the vulnerability of drought-affected livestock-based households (approximately 39,000 people or 6,500 households) in Wajir district, Kenya, through cash grants
• assisting approximately 30,000 drought- and conflict-affected displaced persons (86 percent women and children) in Somalia by providing cash transfers to particularly vulnerable households to purchase food and essential life-saving items
• reducing suffering in affected areas of Ethiopia for approximately 199,000 people (33,000 households) by ensuring basic needs and services such as access to safe drinking water, environmental hygiene and sanitation, emergency income through cash-for-work activities, and emergency livestock support (feeding and veterinary services)
• providing life-saving water and sanitation services to more than 400,000 internally displaced persons living in the Afgooye corridor outside of Mogadishu
• providing access to safe drinking water and sanitation for almost 14,000 drought-affected households in the Somali region of Ethiopia
• providing access to water and sanitation services to Kenyan host communities (10,000 households) affected by drought and the environmental effects of hosting a large Somali refugee population

Action against Hunger (ACF)

ACF is:

• providing access to health and nutrition support for approximately 283,000 people in refugee camps in Ethiopia, including children under five, babies, and pregnant and lactating women, and reducing illness and death due to acute malnutrition
• Treating malnutrition and improving the nutrition status of approximately 34,000 children under five and pregnant and lactating women in Kenya with interventions in water, nutrition and food security

World Vision Canada

World Vision Canada is:

• meeting the immediate needs of water-stressed communities in Somalia and easing the impact of drought for approximately 81,000 people by improving health, access to water and sanitation and livestock and resource management
• providing water, sanitation, and medical support to 145,000 internally displaced persons in Puntland who have fled insecurity in the south

Plan Canada

Plan Canada is:

• helping to save lives and maintain health by treating children under five for malnutrition and providing nutritional support to pregnant and lactating women, as well as increasing access to safe drinking water, hygiene education and water-borne disease prevention for close to 26,000 people in Kenya

United Nations Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs (OCHA)

OCHA is:

• coordinating the overall international humanitarian response in this complex situation in East Africa and providing essential humanitarian leadership and advocacy on behalf of the affected populations and humanitarian agencies, as well as engaging and coordinating with national authorities

Médecins sans frontières

Médecins sans frontières is:

• providing emergency medical support for 600,000 conflict- and drought-affected people living in the Ogaden region of Ethiopia

United Nations Department of Safety and Security (UNDSS)

UNDSS is:

• providing essential safety and security services in support of the overall international humanitarian response by coordinating safety and security for United Nations and non-governmental-organization personnel contributing to the humanitarian response enabling them to expand their operations

Families who have recieved drought relief from Vulnerable Children Society in Ethiopia.

As the Horn of Africa continues to be ravaged by drought and famine, Vulnerable Children Society moved quickly this week to feed at-risk families in Ethiopia. All of the families and children enrolled in the House 2 House community support program have received bags of tef flour for drought relief.

- written by Vulnerable Children Society board member Chris Ardern
copied from www.vulnerablechildren.ca

Even though the drought has directly affected the southern region, food prices across Ethiopia have skyrocketed. This rapid increase in prices has had a direct impact on the ability of many low income families, already sponsored through Vulnerable Children Society, to purchase basic food supplies. As a result, the society, with its Ethiopian partner Faya Orphanage, has taken immediate steps this week to assist them.

Fifty children and families living in Adama, Wonji, Ambo and Guder are currently being sponsored through Vulnerable Children Society’s House 2 House program. Most of the children in the community-based program are HIV+ or have family members who are sick or HIV+ as well. The House 2 House child and family sponsorships take care of their basic necessities, which can include food, access to healthcare, medicine and school supplies.

Although Vulnerable Children Society’s sponsorships make a huge difference in the quality of these low income families’ lives, the current food price emergency has threatened the well-being of even middle income families in Ethiopia. House 2 House families are far more vulnerable to food price inflation and at much greater risk during this time, even given existing monthly sponsorship.

In the face of rising food costs, Vulnerable Children Society’s first priority was to support these families.

Within days of the society’s decision to move forward with a drought relief campaign, its Ethiopian partner Faya Orphanage delivered food to House 2 House sponsored families in four different Ethiopian communities. Each family received a large bag of tef flour from the community’s weekly local market. Tef flour is the main ingredient in Ethiopia’s national food staple called injera, a sourdough pancake eaten three times a day.

Vulnerable Children Society would like to express our deepest thanks to all donors for their continued generosity. It is your ongoing financial assistance that has allowed us to act immediately in this situation.

The local office of Women’s Affairs vets and identifies families who are sponsored in the House 2 House program. Currently, the House 2 House program has a wait-list of 50 additional at-risk children and families in the community who urgently need individual sponsorship. The well-being of these already vulnerable families has been rocked by this food price emergency. Children and families affected by HIV/AIDS who are waiting for sponsorship through Vulnerable Children Society are currently hungry and need assistance desperately right now.

Please continue to stay tuned to Vulnerable Children Society’s blog and Facebook page this week to learn more about donating to assist these vulnerable families who have been wait-listed for support in Ethiopian communities.

Read more:

• A Special Thank You to Families Who Have Visited Faya Orphanage
• Drought in Ethiopia Takes its Toll on Families

Copied from the Vulnerable Children blog:

Vulnerable Children Society would like to extend a heartfelt thanks to all Canadian families who have donated to and/or visited Faya Orphanage. Your generosity means that, to date, the children living at Faya Orphanage have not experienced negative fallout from the drought affecting Ethiopia.

According to Faya Orphanage director Meseret Demissie, the donations brought to the orphanage have offset other costs, and enabled the orphanage to afford food for the children in her care.

As a result of the drought, prices in central Ethiopia where Faya operates have skyrocketed, meaning that essential food supplies and medicines have become almost out of reach for many families.

Over the last few years, several dozen Canadian families have visited Faya Orphanage with donations, while families in Canada also continue to sponsor children living there. It is this generous support that has helped safeguard the well-being of children who call Faya Orphanage home.

During this food crisis, it has never been clearer that donations from Canadians make a real and lasting difference in the lives of HIV+ and HIV- children living at Faya Orphanage.

If you are planning to visit Ethiopia or have donations you would like to send to Faya Orphanage, please contact VCS board member Nicole Bellefleur at info@vulnerablechildren.ca for more information.

While the children at Faya are safe, unfortunately many of the community families enrolled in Faya Orphanage’s House 2 House program in Adama, Wonji, Ambo and Guder are feeling the effects of runaway inflation on food prices.

Please stay tuned to Vulnerable Children Society’s blog and Facebook page this week to learn more about the actions we are taking right now to assist vulnerable families living in Ethiopian communities.

Read more: Drought in Ethiopia Takes its Toll on Families

Written by Vulnerable Children board member Chris Ardern

I’ll add that there will be a big announcement about our drought relief efforts tomorrow!!!!