More Sleep Caps in Store!

I know you’ve all been waiting for some new sleep caps in AfricaSleeps.com and we got a shipment of 350 new caps this past week!
I’ve posted a bunch of new caps in our store, and will continue to roll out more styles over the coming weeks.
But don’t wait! BUY YOUR SLEEP CAPS HERE!
There is a wonderful selection of big and small caps, with girls, boys and gender neutral styles!
By the way, my sleep caps are a waste product – they are made from fabric off cuts from the Italien swimsuit industry. Pretty good use of waste fabric, if you ask me!
Also by the way, this is our family’s fundraiser for our adoption from Lesotho. So we really appreciate your business! and support. After our adoption, we’ll continue our enterprise to fund return trips to Ethiopia and Lesotho for our family. In other words, not only are you getting the best sleep caps out there from Africa Sleeps! but you are also helping our family on our adoption journeys.
My work team unpacking the sleep caps. Unfortunately, they all come individually packaged in plastic, so we take all the plastic off, recycle it and then send them out in paper envelopes.
A Snow Mommy
The girls and Jrock rushed outside when we had a fresh dump of snow last week – and look! They made a snow mommy.
It’s great to have such mild winters in the Okanagan – here the girls are on a camp out the other day on our back deck… their Calico Critters barely felt the frost for a good 45 minutes! until suppertime when they had to come in.

Small Kids Sleep Caps in Store!
Today a huge shipment of sleep caps arrived!!!
I know so many people have been waiting!!! for AfricaSleeps.com to have new stock. It will take me several days to take pictures of ALL the new styles and uplaod them, but for tonight, I listed all the “small kid” styles that I already have pictures for. Stay tuned for more “big kids” caps and brand new styles over the coming week!!
Sleep caps for children of Africa heritage – it’s our Lesotho travel fund!
To buy, go to www.africasleeps.com
Happy Valentine’s Day
To celebrate love – this is my favourite love sing ever: La Vie En Rose.
For those of you who don’t speak French, I have the English words below. I think it’s my ideal of romantic love…
The magic spell you cast
This is la vie en rose
When you kiss me, Heaven sighs
And though I close my eyes
I see la vie en rose
I’m in a world apart
A world where roses bloom
And when you speak
Angels sing from above
Every day words
Seem to turn into love songs
Give your heart and soul to me
And life will always be
La vie en rose
They sang about in songs I heard
It took your kisses to reveal
That I was wrong, and love is real
Hold me close and hold me fast
The magic spell you cast
This is la vie en rose
And though I close my eyes
I see la vie en rose
When you press me to your heart
I’m in a world apart
A world where roses bloom
And when you speak
Angels sing from above
Every day words
Seem to turn into love songs
Give your heart and soul to me
And life will always be
La vie en rose
Galleria
It’s amazing how far Sugar’s drawing has come – she just finished another journal this past week and I photographed some of my favourites!
BTW, one of the best small parenting decisions I did was to skip the colouring books and give the girls journals with blank pages – this kind of creativity would never happen if they were always colouring in someone else’s lines. I remember the preschool teacher was worried, because the girls didn’t “respect the lines” – well! Look at them burn up the paper now!
Another lost tooth!
Well, there goes another tooth. This one Sugar asked me to pull, which, honestly, was hard to get up my nerve to do! Both Jrock and I have not fond remembrances of our dads grubbing out our teeth before they were ready. But I used some floss and it popped right out and now she is front toothless.
We;ve decided that Sugar MUST have been born first, because she is a little taller and her teeth are growing in first. Makes sense to us! lol
Why kids need families – even as adults
I think sometimes when we look at international adoption and other options for children, we are -sighted. UNICEF says that children should stay in their own countries and communities before they should be adopted overseas. To some point I agree – there is a loss of culture and community. But I think this approach also forgets that living with neighbors or foster families in your home country can have its downfalls. More obviously, growing up in an orphanage is a short-term strategy for children, since they lose all the support they had as a child when turning into an “adult.”
I know some foster families in essence become permanent families. But for the rest of children who have grown up in institutional care, their needs for a family and support network don’t just disappear when they become 18. I think of all the times I would have had financial trouble, or been devastated by life circumstances, as I went through my 20s. Even now, I need my parents. We should expect that all children/adults have this need for support and connection throughout their lives.
Watch the beautiful video below… it’s short but sweet. And, for me, it makes a very good case for adoption throughout the span of a young person’s life.
CAFAC Families – please call your media
Folks, I just called CTV in Winnipeg, the Winnipeg Sun, and the Winnipeg Free Press. None of them had heard about the agency closure. ???
If you don’t want this to happen – call your local newspapers and TV stations, as well as the provincial news sources. Tell your stories, tell about the good work CAFAC has done, and see that the Ministry is pressured to work with them to continue.
They need to hear real people wth real stories!
Save CAFAC! PLEASE act now!!!!
Folks -
I just learned that Canada’s long-standing Ethiopian adoption agency CAFAC is on the edge of closing its doors February 3rd. this is absolutely TERRIBLE!!!
We need to help CAFAC get through this.
You may or may not know, but we were one of the first two families that flew to Ethiopia after the Imagine bankruptcy to get our kids. We can’t let this reliable and long-standing agency fall apart – especially if one of the core issues is the agency’s inability to charge adequate fees for increasing timelines.
When imagine fell apart, the tragedy wasn’t just families not realizing their dreams. The tragedies I saw were children being sent back to orphanages to live out their lives, Ethiopian staff losing their jobs and their own families going unfed, and a blight on the world’s perception of international adoption.
The CAFAC board explains their position very clearly and asks for help very clearly: http://cafac.ca
PLEASE, do at least one of these things tomorrow.
#1 Call a reporter in Manitoba and tell them why it’s a tragedy if CAFAC goes under/ceases operations.
#2 Call Minister Jennifer Howard’s offices 204-945-4173 (ministry) 204-946-0272 (constituency) to voice your support for CAFAC and to encourage the ministry to allow for interim funding and fee increases.
#3 if you can’t call, email your concerns to the minister: minfsl@leg.gov.mb.ca
Let’s unite and stop this agency from failing!!
Spark-tastic!
In December, Sugar and Spice joined a local Sparks group, thanks to an invite from their friend M. These pictures are from their enrollment ceremony when they officially became Sparks!
For those of you that don’t know, Sparks are Kindergarten and Grade 1 aged Girl Guides… they wear pink shirts and promise to “share and be a friend.”
Our family actually has a long long history with Girl guides and Boy Scouts, which I have been careful to keep a secret from their leaders (I really don’t have any time to do more volunteering now!)
I was in Brownies/Guides/Pathfinders/Jr.Leaders for 11 years – yes, count them, 11 years. My sister and brother also spent some time. Both my parents were leaders… the kind that took 10 year old girls winter camping in the snow! The fun kind. But it doesn’t stop there. My dad was a Scout, and his mom was a Scout leader… in fact, my great grandmother was in the first Girl Guide group ever, back in England. It’s just a huge part of our family.
So when the girls were invited along, I was pleased. Of course what the group does and how fun it is depends on the leader, but overall, Guides is a pretty good use of a young girls time. I think there is a lot of value in learning to be comfortable outdoors, and in learning to serve your community.
So far, the girls are doing a lot of colouring and crafts… but in 2 weeks they have their first overnight camp and are pretty excited about it. Hopefully they’ll be spending some more time outside as the weather gets warmer as well.
Here are two pictures of my Sparks helping with supper… and then they get to tell their peeps about it at the meeting! Oh, and a side note that is important to them – the girls love that they are not the only kids with brown skin in Sparks (as opposed to school.) It is actually a real positive for them!
The girls’ room – the glam shots!
I took the opportunity when the girls’ room was pretty tidy one day to take some pictures of it. They have been living under the gabled roof for a month now, but it still has that “new room” mystique.
So this room used to be our guest room. Even though our adoption has been delayed, we didn’t think it fair to the girls to delay their move upstairs. So in December we started shopping and constructing, and just before Christmas they moved in.
There are still a few things left to do – like Ena’s murals, a couple of pillows and peg boards, but you get the idea.
Some sourcing notes!! I really like using previously loved furniture, but there was a scarcity of decent bunkbeds in our area. So we bought the bunkbeds, desk and cubbies from IKEA. The chairs we ordered and received from Target last summer. Besides that, though, the rest of the furniture was repurposed or refinished. Jrock built the shelves (he’s good at shelving!) with a big lip on the side to hold animals and stuff. I refurbished and painted their dresser (not shown – it’s in the closet) as well as the desk chairs. These were antique highchairs that I sawed off and strengthened and refinished. The dolly beds I turned into bunks and stenciled the lot to match. The rug and curtains were from the old guest room.
I hope you enjoy the pictures – the girls certainly love it, and I’m so glad with the way it turned out! (The plans here.)
- 8 x 15 feet
- A long linear layout
- You can see three zones – sleeping, desk and play/relaxing.
- Close-up of the bed stencil.
- The girls’ bunk. Note the red wall lamps for reading.
- The mini baby bed, reconstructed from two older doll beds.
- A clock so they don’t get up too early.
- It used to have roman numerals, so I repainted the clock and glued some numbers in. Jrock said – “why can’t they have roman numerals? How are they going to know what Superbowl it is?” Um hum.
- I love the laquered desk – it’s plenty big enough for both of them at 6 feet long, and they each have their own drawer.
- A close-up of their desk chairs. So comfy!
- Looking out onto the street – and into their neighbor’s bedroom. One day they’ll figure out the flashlight signals trick.
- Two cozy reading chairs and lots of toy storage.
- What we fondly call the stuffie shelf. Soon the top will fill up too.
- Working away at a sticker book.
- The girls love drawing and stickering at their desk in the morning before we get up, and we love not getting woken up!
Animal Crazy – Nature and Nurture
Well, my rugrats are back home and back in routine. Aside from being a little tired and very cuddly, they seemed to have fared very well at Gramma and Grandpa’s house!
But on a totally different note: a little insight into what makes Sugar and Spice tick.
If there is one thing my kids are crazy about… it’s animals. The are avid naturalists, and love nothing more than to draw, read, watch or play out animal behaviors. Now, this mostly comes from Jrock and I (the whole nature / nurture thing takes another layer of meaning here.) We both are nature nuts – he is interested in animal behaviors and groups, as well as zoology. I’m more into ecology and interactions, as well as connecting with nature. He really likes mammals – I really like birds and other small beasties. It’s obvious we have passed these passions onto the girls. Jrock’s family were cattle farmers; whereas my family is the outdoorsy side. My dad’s a biologist and we all grew up hunting, fishing and exploring the great outdoors.
The fascinating thing is how the girls’ have got involved in our family interest but made it their own. spice is very creative and dramatic. So she loves playing out big elaborate stories and animal family scenes with her stuffies or small animal figurines. Spice is quite the little artist, and loves drawing pictures of animals and nature. She’s also very happy going for walks to watch ducks, or putter about in nature and the garden. Currently, she is growing some of her own pea plants in my kitchen.
Spice likes to examine bugs and other twigs and things in her microscope, always careful not to harm them. She also likes to call Grandpa on the phone and ask a specific question about something she’s been pondering… like why bighorn sheep’s horns keep growing.
Sugar, our ball of energy, is quite different. She acts out scenes directed by her sister, but her real passion is reading and learning about animals. She memorizes infinite details about different species, their interactions and habitats. Definitely, she’s the academic amateur zoologist, along with the same kind of detachment of many researchers. It doesn’t trouble her much to swish a bug to look at it.
But forget bugs – Sugar is interested mainly in cute animals (puppies) and large flashy species like zebras. Just like her sister, she loves it when Daddy finds her a video online that shows an animal doing something (hunting, reproducing, whatever,) and enjoys not only understanding but being able to explain her findings to other people. If you want to know how climate change works, just ask Sugar. She’ll ‘splain it!
Anyway, here are some of our girl’s favorite animal / nature toys and resources:
Schleich figurines.. boy they LOVE these, especially when they have a family or group of them. Favorites are horses, tigers/lions and the new zebra and giraffes they got for Christmas.

The girls are absolutely gaga for Calico critters – all those infinitely tiny parts and the super cute animals! It’s just so right for their age!
Their matching Falkmanis otter puppets (they also have a skunk and an owl)
Some of their favorite reading books:
And their favorite books overall:
And their favorite tools:

Favorite Netflix movie:

Favorite Netflix TV show (Tales of the Riverbank):
Sugar and Spice’s first brush with “the law”
he he – Probably not something that our girls will remember when they grow up, but over the holidays their dad and I were there for their first brush with the law!
We went skateboarding in my office, which was closed for the holidays. We have this awesome smooth cement floor – perfect! for skateboarding. And there wasn’t anyone else in sight.
But after 1/2 hour or so of boarding and a bunch of awesome action shots, the security guard came in and gave us the boot.
We’ve been there before, and the other security guards never cared. But this one was adamant that there was a “no skateboarding” policy on the property.
As we exited the building, one of our juvenile deliquints looked up at me with wide eyes and said “was that a policeman??”
“Naw, honey,” I replied. “Just security. Police wouldn’t care.”
he he
Little Turkeys
It looks like my little turkeys are having a good time in Creston! According tot he daily reports, they went to watch a figure-skating competition, went swimming, played outside, did their homework (not really homework, just read the same book as they are missing in school,) and have done lots of colouring! I’m so glad we have such good grandparents to take such good care of my special treasures!!
Ena’s Super Doro Wat
We’ve had so many requests for this recipe, I hope my sister doesn’t mind me posting it. I do make a couple of small changes when I make it, so the version of the recipe below is with my slight modifications!
Chicken pieces (flat of thighs)
Juice of 1 lemon
2 tsp salt
Mix in a bowl and let marinate for at least 30 minutes.
2 onions
3 cloves garlic
2 tbsp fresh ginger
Mix into a paste using a blender or food processor.
¼ c niter kibbeh
(or ¼ c butter with ¼ tsp each fenugreek, basil & black pepper)
2 tbsp paprika
¼- ½ c berbere paste or 1-2tbsp powder
½-2 tsp cayenne
Heat the butter in a large saucepan. Add the paprika, stir, and cook for 1 minute on med. Add berbere and cayenne and stir to cook 2-3 minutes. Add onion/garlic/ginger puree and sauté on medium until onion loses it’s raw smell, about 5 minutes.
¼- ½ c red wine
3/4c stock
Add wine and stock to taste.
Place chicken pieces in a large crockpot. Cover with sauce and stir. Cook on high for 1 hour, low 4+ hours.
3 tbl flour
2 tbl tomato paste
15 minutes before serving, take bones out of crockpot and return the chicken meat. Add 3 tbl flour to tomato paste and a little cold stock to make a roux, then stir it into the pot to thicken the sauce and add colour. Season with salt and additional berbere to taste. Let the mixture sit with the heat off for 10 minutes to thicken and settle. If desired, add 4 hard boiled eggs (peeled but whole) 10 minutes before serving.






































