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Our Baby is Sick

Aug. 6th | Posted by 25 comments

Hamish, my best friend, has been diagnosed with cancer.  It’s in his liver, spleen and lymph-nodes – and it’s appeared since his last Xray in May.  It’s the bad stuff – he only has 4-6 weeks to live if we are lucky.  We are devastated.  You may not hear from us for some time…

I don’t know how we will make it through this.  I have slept with him almost every night for 9 years.

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  1. Karen

    Oh Nicky, I am so sorry to hear this! We lost our 6 year old Boxer to cancer 4 years ago, and I can appreciate the grief you are currently feeling. It is heartbreaking.

    My thoughts are with you!

    Karen


  2. CinnamonOpus

    Oh I am so very sorry. What hard news to hear. Hamish is such a wonderful friend, a faithful companion, and a member of your family. It is so hard to have to cope with such a devastating diagnosis. But it’s some comfort to know you can offer him the best care you can and all the love in the world for the time he has left.

    Bless your heart Hamish. And hugs to your people, too.


  3. Tara

    Nicky, I am so sorry. It is incredible the love that can be shared between a woman and her dog. Thinking of you during this difficult time.


  4. Jenny

    Nicky,

    I don’t know what to say except for I am so sorry. This is terrible news, we have bee through it and I feel for you. Pets are family members and you have every reason to be grieving. Take care of yourself. My heart and prayers are with you all.

    Jenny


  5. The Stokes Family

    Hi Nicky and Jrock,

    You don’t know me but I check out your blog every so often as we are in the process of adopting a little girl from Ethiopia. I am so sorry to hear about Hamish. I am in tears writing this after I read your post and seen the picture. What a sweet looking little dog. Our little dog is a Pembroke Welsh Corgi named Rue and she is our best little bud too. She goes everywhere with us and does everything with us–even sleeps in our bed. She is laying right under my feet as I type this post to you. She really is like a kid to us. We love her so much. We have horses too and are attached to all our animals and love them just as much. So we too know how heartbroken and upset you feel right now. Just wanted to let you know that even though we’ve never met, we are thinking of you guys and Hamish.

    Blessings and Peace,
    The Stokes Family- Michael, Paula, and Rue (the dog)
    Woodstock, New Brunswick


  6. Dianne

    I’m so sorry, Nicky. I know how hard it is to lose a dog you love so much. My thoughts are with you both.

    Dianne


  7. Julie

    I am so sorry. This happened to us last summer. It is one of the most difficult things I have ever experienced. My pups have been my kids for so long. Hold on to each other, treasure everyday you have left with him. Take care of yourself too.


  8. Justine

    Nicky,

    I am so sorry. We lost a beloved Golden Lab a number of years ago and it devastated all. I know how much you come to love your animals, especially one who is a family member and not just a yard dog!! Hang in there!!

    Take care,

    Justine


  9. June

    Oh Nicky, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ll be thinking of you guys.


  10. Michelle Q

    I’m so sorry to read this. What sad news. It is so overwhelming to have a beloved pet sick. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Take care,
    Michelle


  11. Alicia

    I am so sorry to hear that you are losing your best friend. Losing a being so close to you is so very hard. All the best.
    Alicia


  12. haze

    Nicky & Jrock, I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. Hamish is a member of your family and of course you are devastated.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all.


  13. Tasha

    My thoughts and prayers are with you during this incredibly difficult time. I have two dogs and just reading your post and thinking about them made me cry. Enjoy every waking moment with your dog. My thoughts are with you.

    Sincerely, Tasha


  14. Andrea

    Hi Nicky,
    I’ve never left a reply before but I read your blog often as my husband and I are in the process of adopting an infant from Ethiopia as well. When I read your latest post I just had to reply because I feel so absolutley heartsick for you. We have a Boston Terrier and she is so precious to me and can’t even think about how painful it would be to lose her. Please know that you, your husband and your beautiful pup are in my thoughts. I’m so sorry.

    Andrea


  15. Courtney

    Nicky, what awful news. It is so difficult to lose anyone that you love. I’m thinking of your family and little Hamish.


  16. Ricki

    Oh no, I am so so so sorry. What absolutely heart breaking and devastating news.
    Although there is nothing I can say to make this better, please know that you are in my heart and in my thoughts.

    Hugs,
    Ricki


  17. Eileen

    Nicky:

    You’ve brought me to tears. I am so sorry to hear that Hamish is sick. It is the hardest thing to lose one of your family. We lost our old girl in early May. We had been given a prognosis of months and she lived for almost 3 years. Cherish your time with him. You are in my thoughts

    Eileen


  18. Jenny

    Through my tears, I am so sorry about your baby. Love is so gosh darn heartbreaking sometimes.


  19. Rana

    Nicky and Jrock:

    As a pet lover and having slept with my cats for the last10 years and my dogs the last 6 I know how difficult this must be.

    Hamish is family and your love for him is definitely felt.

    Thinking of you both,

    Rana


  20. Kim

    I am so sorry…I am bawling my eyes out right now…I don’t know what to say because I am sure not much would probably bring you comfort right now. My three four legged babies mean the world to me and bless my world every single day. Keeping you, Jrock and Hamish in my prayers. May the upcoming days be full of love, tummy rubs, walkies, kisses, and tons of treats ;-)

    “A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.”
    – Josh Billings


  21. rowanfamilytree

    Thank you.


  22. barbara

    Nicky I’m so sorry. I have 2 dogs of my own and will be devasted when their times comes. You’re in my thoughts.


  23. Shannon Warren

    Ahhh… I am so sorry to hear that )-: I love dogs, they are just as much a part of the family as anyone else (I grew up with dogs). Enjoy your time with your little guy while you still have him. It’s not fair that their lives can be so short )-:


  24. Cara

    I am really sorry to hear about your dog. Pets are a very important part of the family. I have lost a couple of pets over the years and it is a difficult thing. My thoughts are with you.


  25. Sharla

    Thinking of you guys today and wondering how you are. This must be a very difficult time for you. I wish there were some words of comfort that I could offer but I can’t think of anything that could ease what you must be going through so just wanted to say that I am sorry and am thinking of you.


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